Five months ago, we moved our family of five from a 2200
square foot house to an itty bitty two bedroom apartment. We did it to be
prudent. Job changes necessitated a move, and after hearing horror stories
about houses being on the market for years, we chose to stay together and live
conservatively until the house sells.
Moving from a fairly good sized house to a small apartment
was a challenge. I have had to change my pantry habits, buying less and
shopping more. No more stocking up on items for this mom. There simply isn’t
room. There isn’t room for much. We are reduced to one coat per season, minimal
toys. My Tupperware cabinet all but abandoned, as there is neither a spare
cabinet big enough to contain my plastic stash, nor refrigerator space for the
covered goodies.
Something else we left behind in our new skinny life…. the
books. We own a ton of books. Nearly every room in our house had a bookshelf or
two. With three beds in one room and barely enough clearance for the kitchen
table with five chairs, we could not afford the furniture space. We vowed to
use the library more often (and we do) and have a few reading choices stashed
on the hall tree.
Even with library visits and those selected few volumes, I
heard the swell of discontent. “I miss the books.” “I don’t have anything to
read.” At one point, I had to give my Kindle to my 6th grader.
With this in mind, while packing up our house for the last
time (it sold!), I told the patient husband we need to bring back a bookshelf.
Neither of us knew where it would go, as the apartment was already filled to
the brim with all of us and our minimal stuff. He doesn’t ask questions, and
suggested the smallest of our bookcase collection. I put my sons on task to
choose some books for it, and warned them to only bring what they will read in
the next six months (because the house sold! We don’t have to stay in the
apartment for years!)
This, of course, led to less packing going on and little
boys getting into trouble for hiding in their empty rooms reading.
I put the bookshelf in the almost nonexistent hallway
between the bedrooms and the living area of the apartment. We will probably run
into it 500 times before moving out, swearing at this decision daily. The
smallest boy put the books on the shelf, carefully, lovingly and oh, so slowly
as he stopped to read each title and peruse the contents with the excitement of
opening a package received in the mail.
Instantly, that bookshelf transformed the apartment. It made
it a home. Somehow, this extra piece of furniture we decided was unnecessary
five months ago adds an ambience that is comfortable and soothing. Each of us
has stopped to look at the shelves, or touch its surface, page through a book,
or notice how the shelf itself fills the space with good, comforting vibes.
A place is not a home until there is a bookshelf. I am
convinced.